Introducing our Bamboo Baby

Lindy (2 months old) in her foster mother's arms July 2005

"...learn to do right! Seek justice, encourage the oppressed. Defend the cause of the fatherless, plead the cause of the widow." Isaiah 1:17

I will admit, I'm not a natural born fundraiser and I'm not really very good about asking for help. I'm typically not one to publicly advocate for things and I like to keep what I'm involved with kind of quiet. However, lately, I've been reconsidering things. After a lot of prayer, I believe I'm called to do things that aren't second-nature for me and to step out of my comfort zone. Thus, the reason for this post.

There are some who think the fact we adopted Lindy and are waiting to adopt again makes us special; we've even been called, "heroes." While we appreciate the kind words and sentiments we have received through the years, we don't feel like we're special or heroes because we adopted Lindy. We desperately wanted to become parents and we fulfilled our desires through the avenue of adoption. Truthfully, it is not something we had ever dreamed of doing and it was not really an easy road getting to that point.

Insert GIGANTIC however here! Adoption is now something we're completely convicted of and feel very strongly about. Our hearts have been pricked and verses that have been in the Bible for over two thousand years now leap off the pages and have greater meaning. It is heartbreaking for us to think about the millions of orphans in this world and Don and I both agree that adding children to our family to fulfill a desire and void isn't enough.

A couple months ago, a good friend of mine went to work for Pearl River Outreach. Up until about two weeks ago, I hadn't had the chance to check out the work they are doing. I was so excited and nearly jumped for joy when I found out they were helping children who are from the same orphanage Lindy was from in Changsha, Hunan. Their funds go to help the children in the orphanage, as well as those in foster care. Lindy was in foster care from two months old until we met her at just shy of 11 months. We are eternally grateful for all those who had generously donated funds to her foster program so she could receive such wonderful care and love.

We have decided to sponsor, "Lili," one of the children from Changsha. We loved the red thread connection we have with her--her birthday is one day (and three years) off of Lindy's (May 8, 2005) and May 9, 2005 was our log-in date for Lindy. It is our prayer that it won't be long until Lili meets her forever family. Until then, we hope she'll be taken care of extremely well, just like we know our sweet Lindy was.


Pearl River Outreach is still looking for some sponsors for their Bamboo Babies. If you're interested in helping, go to their blog or web.

On another exciting note, if you feel called to help but can't commit to a sponsorship, there is a fundraiser taking place right now for the orphanage in Changsha. The Meadows Family is trying to raise enough money to send 88 care packages to the children there. They are trying to raise $1000 by December 1st or they're requesting items such as socks, hats, mittens, toothpaste, and coloring books. If you'd like to know more about this special collection, please read about it here. What a wonderful teachable moment it would be to involve young children to help collect simple items for other children thousands of miles away.

I am excited about the special work being done in Changsha! I hope you'll join us in helping out these wonderful children. If you can't financially, they sure could use your prayers!

Thank you!

Many blessings~
Lisa

Will hike for diamonds

November 16, 1991
See the little black box???

Today is Don's birthday. It is also the day we got engaged 18 years ago. On his 24th birthday we drove to Lake Tahoe. I knew what was going to take place that day but acted like I didn't.

Don had always said that if a girl loved a guy enough a cheeseburger should be enough and that she didn't need a fancy, gigantic diamond ring to symbolize their love. I tried to modify his philosophies slightly but, honestly, I was so smitten with him, I would've gladly accepted just a cheeseburger. When we got to Tahoe, we did stop at McD*onald's and he sprung for a cheeseburger and then we set off to go hiking.

After a bit of a hike, we made it to the beautiful and scenic water's edge of Emerald Bay at Vikingsholm. He got down on one knee and asked me to marry him. I forgot to say, "yes" and it is funny to me that my failure to answer actually caused him a slight scare. Eventually, I sealed the deal and we were married seven months later on June 13, 1992.

Judging by my pictures nowadays, he's showered me with more cheeseburgers than diamonds. It is probably time to work on adjusting his philosophy again AND maybe even plan a hike...

I never had heard of formal engagement pictures
but this was taken shortly after our engagement.

Proud of our veterans

"This nation will remain the land of the free
only so long as it is the home of the brave." ~Elmer Davis

I am so thankful for the men and women in the military who have served and continue to serve our country. I know it isn't an easy road. I used to laugh when Don would tell me he was weaving the blanket of freedom I sleep under every night. I no longer laugh at that statement.

On Monday I had to go to the mall and I got there a bit early. I had 1000 things to do that day and didn't want to lose one second of time. However, I went and got a mocha and decided to walk a bit--counterproductive, I know. Anyway, it was approaching 10:00 so I went to camp out in front of the store I was planning on dashing in and out of. I sat down next to this lovely couple in their 80s and it became the highlight of my day. The man was wearing a powder blue jumpsuit and a ball cap that read, "WW II Veteran." His wife was absolutely adorable and so incredibly sweet and kind. Immediately he started talking to me and she chimed in. I asked him which branch of the service he had served in and he asked me if I had heard of General Patton and then proceeded to tell me he had fought in the Battle of the Bulge. I thanked him for his service and suddenly rushing off to complete my errands didn't seem so important. He introduced me to another one of his friends--also there to walk--who had also served in WWII and jumped out of airplanes. It was a privilege and honor that day to be with men who had served in such a huge conflict and lived to tell about it.

On this day, I hope you will join me in thanking and praying for our veterans. I am especially proud to thank my husband, father, grandfather, great uncle, and uncle for their service in the Navy.

May God bless America!

Menu Plan Monday

I remember the good old days when every once in a while I would actually get motivated enough to post my weekly menu. It has been over a year since I've done that. I guess I'm feeling a bit nostalgic, so I thought I'd give it a whirl...

Monday, November 2nd-Chili & cheese turkey dogs on whole wheat buns, butternut squash, and another veggie (which honestly might be corn chips...NO JUDGING please)
Tuesday, November 3rd-Cranberry chicken over rice, green beans, garden salad
Wednesday, November 4th-Out
Thursday, November 5th-Pumpkin baked ziti, broccoli, salad
Friday, November 6th-Leftovers

I also am going to bring this dip with gingersnaps for MOPS on Friday and this salad for a potluck after Ladies Bible Class tomorrow.

I love seeing what other people are having for dinner here.

What's on your menu this week?

Weekend in Dallas & Fort Worth

Howdy~

Last weekend we took a jaunt to Dallas and Fort Worth and packed a lot in our short trip to the metroplex. Our "inspiration" event, so to speak, was the Navy/SMU football game. All other activities were planned around that blessed event. My parents hadn't really ever been to the area as tourists and they decided to fly down from Kansas City and meet us there for some fun.

On Thursday we spent a few hours at the Texas State Fair. It is the largest state fair in the country and we certainly didn't get to a fraction of it. While we all passed on this year's featured deep fried item of butter, we did indulge in a famous corny dog and tried a deep fried peanut butter cup macaroon (really a waste of a good peanut butter cup IMHO).


While we didn't have tickets to attend the famous Red River Shootout (UT/OU game) on Saturday, we did pay a quick homage to the Cotton Bowl which is on the fairgrounds. Hook 'em!

On Thursday night, my parents and I went to see the Broadway musical Mary Poppins. The only word I can think to describe it is supercalifragilisticexpialidocious. It was wonderful and I highly recommend it to anyone who likes the story, the movie, musicals, and a fun time.

On Friday morning I introduced my mom to Sam M*oon. It is a mecca for me when I'm in Dallas (which isn't often). It is just rows and rows of fun jewelry and accessories. It is like Claire's on steroids. We could've stayed there for hours but the men and child got a little restless. So we decided to mosey on over to Fort Worth, specifically to the Stock Yards. We made it in time to see the 4:00 cattle drive down Exchange Street.

Lindy did not want to get on Pecos Bill but didn't mind taking a more conservative approach as shown below.

When in Rome, do as the Romans and when in Texas, do as the Texans. We all attended our first rodeo at the C*owtown C*oliseum which was the sight of the first indoor rodeo in the early 1900s. Lindy seemed to like the sparkly belts and accessories that the cowgirls wore but she was a little hesitant about being a cowgirl when Don took her down to the ring to participate in chasing the mutton (no pictures available).


After a full Friday, we embarked on super-packed Saturday. We spent a couple of hours going through the S*ixth Floor M*useum at the T*exas State Book Depository. That is the sight of where Lee Harvey Oswald assassinated President Kennedy. The museum is very informative and done quite well. I liked history during school but never seemed to get past World War II it seemed. This museum has helped me understand more of what was taking place in the years just before my birth. My parents both were in high school when it happened and for their generation it is an event that they can vividly recall.



We walked around downtown Dallas and made our way to P*ioneer Plaza. I had planned this on our itinerary but had never seen or been there. I kept telling my family it was some bronze sculptures of cattle and I think they were wondering why we were hoofing it all over the city streets to see some statues. However, it was pretty amazing! It wasn't just a couple of cattle--it was at least 50 some cattle (give or take)...They were so life like and pictures can't really describe but I took a bunch, so I'll post them anyway.





Phew... After all that we headed out to Southern Methodist University to go to the long-awaited football game. You always want to get to a Navy game early because they do cool stuff beforehand like have Navy SEALS parachute in with the game ball and flag or send three F-18s to do a low and impressive flyover. You also may sit near a former president or see one (this time George W. Bush and Mrs. Bush were there).






This was my mom's first football game--ever--I think and I was concerned she'd be bored, too cold, or lost trying to learn the rules of the game and follow the ball. To my surprise I think she had a terrific time. We were sitting next to the band and all the cutie patootie YOUNG Midshipmen in their dress blues. Besides a good game that Navy won in OT, we had so much fun watching the youngsters cheer and do their special little Navy dances and traditions. During Don's tenure at the Naval Academy, they didn't have a good football program so I don't think he knows as many cheers.

The weekend was great and almost perfect. Sadly, my poor dad didn't feel well the entire time and initially thought he had a cold. It was obvious on Saturday night and Sunday morning that he was getting worse and it was more than a cold. Last Monday he found out he has H1N1. I felt terrible knowing he had persevered through the full days and nights feeling absolutely rotten. The good news is that he is getting better, my mom has not come down with it, and neither have we. Still praying for his complete healing and protection for my mom and us.

I know there is probably tons more to do in the Big D but we got a pretty good taste of it in the few days we were there. Now waiting for the next adventure...

Y'all come back now, you hear!

And I'll have potpourri for $200, please...

I've been told it has been a while since I've done any blogging and was surprised--but not shocked--to see that it had been a month since I've touched this blog.

So in an attempt to catch up, I present you some randomness from the past month.

Twice a year, Don travels to Idaho and Utah to lure unsuspecting college students and graduates to intern and work at the fine institution he's a part of. It is a busy, busy week for him as he travels to two universities and meets with college classes, professors, and interviews lots and lots of people. This trip he had a Sunday afternoon to spend time outdoors hiking in the mountains which is one of his all time favorite things to do. Here are some pictures of his little excursion in the Tetons.

Good thing I'm not the jealous type... :-)


Gotta love a self-portrait!


A couple lone aspens providing some color

My picture would be blurry, too, if I was that close to a moose because those guys can be AGGRESSIVE! Don saw a family of three--this is the papa...Momma and baby were ahead.

In the past month I got to see two friends I haven't seen in a long time. The first was my friend Kelly. Kelly and I used to work for the same company--although in different states. She and I were on several projects together and used to enjoy hanging out whenever we were on the road together or she was on my home turf or I was on hers. It had been over three years since I'd seen her and I was excited that she squeezed a visit in with me while she was on business travel here. We celebrated by having a pizza and p*izookie from an eating establishment we discovered together years ago in California that is now in San Antonio.

The other friend I got to reconnect with is a friend I hadn't seen since May 1988--the close of my sophomore year of college. Yes, you read that right--1988. What? You didn't think I was that old? Awww, thanks... A lifetime ago, Deena and I went to East S*troudsburg University and were in the same sorority. Unfortunately, we lost touch with each other because she graduated and moved and I moved, too. Last year we reconnected via F*acebook (which you know I love) and I found out she works for the same company as Don and had spent a lot of time in San Antonio at the corporate office. This spring she found out that her office in Virginia was closing and she moved here this summer. We FINALLY were able to get together and visit and it was so nice. No we didn't start singing our sorority songs and we really didn't talk too much about the old days. We really just visited about life as it is now and had a lovely time together. I can't wait to do it again--sans the four year old!


I will be back soon with some more posts.

Hope everyone is happy, healthy, and enjoying a lovely fall.

Parenting with A.W.E.

"Nine tenths of education is encouragement." Anatole France

I've been attending a great parenting class at church called Confident Parenting. It is based on the book of the same name by Jim Burns. There have been many super nuggets to think about and apply as I journey down the road of parenthood. This week we talked about parenting with A.W.E. I love that because the acronym is simple to remember. However, while the acronym is quite easy to remember, it isn't always simple to apply--especially when you're in the moment...

A=AFFECTION

W=WARMTH

E=ENCOURAGEMENT

I think I'm pretty good with the A and W. However, I think I'm really going to have to work harder on the E part. I have noticed that I am not always great at providing encouragement to those who are closest to me. I give my best to others and don't always reserve as much as I should for Don and Lindy. It just is easy to get in that rut of being nit picky and more critical than affirming and encouraging.

I want to parent with A.W.E. It is my prayer to continue to get better at giving Lindy affection, creating a warm home by minimizing stress and conflict, and to grow leaps and bounds in the area of encouraging her.

Friday Night Lights

In case you've been in a cave, high school football is a REALLY BIG deal in Texas. Perhaps you've heard of the book, movie, and TV series called Fr*iday Night Lights??? It is set in Texas and some of it is based on actual events. Okay, okay, I'll totally admit I get just a teensy bit defensive when some people (ahem, Don Osborn) think Texas is the only place where high school football is king. My high school alma mater, C*entral B*ucks High School West in Doylestown, PA, was quite the powerhouse in the 1980s. I am super proud they were undefeated during the entire time I was there and that their coach (and my really challenging Global Affairs teacher), Coach P*ettine, was a class act. His son, the star quarterback in 1984, is currently the defensive coordinator for the NY J*ets. How 'bout them apples? Did I mention two of the greatest quarterbacks who've played the game--Dan M*arino and Joe M*ontana--are from PA?


Whoa, did I digress or what? This past Friday we had the opportunity to get out and watch some high school ball--Texas style (which meant we WEREN'T freezing to death). Lindy had lots of fun hanging out with her Auntie Carolyn, going into the swanky suites, drinking "Sprout," and eating who knows what. She loved watching the band, the cheerleaders, dance team, and, oh yes, the game. Don and I call very enthusiastic people "woo hoo" people and our girl is definitely a "woo hoo" girl. Every once in a while (when she was with us in the stands and not socializing in the suites), we'd hear her cheering and she did admit having fun at the baseball game. (We're still teaching her.)


While I was in the stands, I really enjoyed people watching and taking in the sense of community. It was a lot of fun seeing little tiny children, parents, and grandparents, friends, and family assembled together donning their appropriate school colors and supporting the kids and a fun tradition. It also made me think about a man we knew from church who routinely made it his ministry to support high school football players from our congregation by attending their games. Charlie passed away last week at the age of 56 and was laid to rest on Saturday. Although I didn't know him well, I am certain he was a huge source of encouragement to the young athletes he cheered for from the stands. I also am certain the next time I see Charlie it will be light and bright because we'll be basking in the presence of God in Heaven. How wonderful it'll be to be under that light not just on Fridays but for eternity. And that, I believe, deserves a big woo hoo!

Happy Birthday, Dad

"Live your life and forget your age."--Norman Vincent Peale

Wishing you a very happy birthday, Dad!

I love you~
Lisa

Thankful Thursday

It has been a while since I've done a Thankful Thursday and I really felt called to take a break from my housework and do one right now...

Today I'm thankful for many things, especially my parents. Today they are celebrating their 43rd wedding anniversary. They were kids when they got married and have been through many things--both wonderful and difficult--together. I'm so thankful for the Christian home I was raised in and for the way they still teach me about love and life and doing the right thing. I love them so much and they mean the world to me. Congratulations, Mom & Dad!!!

I am thankful for news of new babies! Two of my dear friends are expecting and publicly announced their great news yesterday. It will be fun watching these little mommas-to-be blossom and dream and I pray they will both be blessed with a safe and healthy pregnancy and that God will give them the desires of their heart.

I am thankful for birthdays. Oh, no, NOT MINE. This week my sweet sister-in-law and Don's baby sister, Anne, had her birthday, Lindy's adorable little friend, Henry, turned three, and one of my "big sisters", Trina, has a birthday on Saturday. There are others, too, I haven't mentioned. I love the people God has brought into my life and celebrate each one of them!!!

I am thankful for the Chinese adoption community FAMILY. There are many things I can say about this but I'll just say it is wonderful to see how people come together during exciting, difficult, and challenging times to encourage, educate, exult, and edify. Over and over, I'm blown away how people--whom often HAVEN'T met--call on each other for support and receive it in tremendous ways. Just this week, I have a dozen examples that come to mind.

I am thankful for the opportunity to get in God's word more as I work with my friend to write our Ladies Bible Class lessons for the fall semester. It is time-consuming but worth every moment. It is true that you learn more when you teach. I know I have lots to learn!!! Our series is called Unwrapping God's Gifts. It is based on the book The Ultimate Gift, which I highly recommend! We are taking the gifts in the book and putting a biblical spin on them. This week we examined the gift of work. It is a challenge for me to always find worth in what I do and I don't often feel a lot of pleasure in sweeping the floor over and over. We issued a challenge to the class to meditate on Colossians 3:23 this week, "Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for men..." I realize I don't always find joy in what I'm doing and I focus so much on myself in the process of the mundane chores. So, in addition to being able to work on the lessons, I'm thankful for the work I have and the opportunity I have to stay at home with Lindy and (hopefully) bless my family.

I'm thankful for all the rain we had last week and for the hint of cooler weather in the air! It has been a LONG, HOT summer and the hope of autumn brings a huge smile to my face. I can smell the wonderful scents of cinnamon now...

I could keep going but I have the gift of closet organizing waiting for me!!!

What are you thankful for today???

Wordless Wednesday

Mid-day meal monotony

I need a little help...Lindy starts back to preschool this week and I realized that means I better have some lunch box appropriate stuff in the house.

I don't think lunch is really her favorite meal (it definitely isn't mine, either), so I've got that working against me and then there's that whole issue of her being social and not really getting to the business of eating while she's at school.

So, won't you please let me sneak a peek into your lunch box and see what you pack your kiddos??? I'd love to hear your ideas for healthy lunches! And, hey, I'll trade you my pb&j for whatever you've got in there...

Wordless Wednesday

Precious family time

"The family. We were a strange little band of characters trudging through life sharing diseases and toothpaste, coveting one another's desserts, hiding shampoo, borrowing money, locking each other out of our rooms, inflicting pain and kissing to heal it in the same instant, loving, laughing, defending, and trying to figure out the common thread that bound us all together." ~Erma Bombeck

About a month ago, we spent a few days in Port Aransas with my parents and brother's family for some rest, relaxation, and a much anticipated visit. We had a great time together. We spent time at the beach and pool, went to the aquarium, watched movies, talked a lot, had some good fresh seafood, and ate more than our share of yummy ice cream.

Lindy, Brendan, & Bryce having fun at the aquarium

Mom taking in the sights and sounds of the beach. Totally not a sun, heat, or beach person but a super, duper GREAT sport.

Bryce with the coveted watering can

Can you really dig a hole to China?

Dani, didn't you see the sign? Please don't feed the seagulls!

Bren chillin' in the sand...

Great sand castle, Uncle Jeff!

My beautiful girl...
Don't be judging! Yep, our kids are eating their psketti in their undies. So???

Brendan enjoying his 5th birhday

Lindy enjoying Brendan's Transformer Party

I was a little bummed that my new camera locked up in the severe Texas humidity so I wasn't able to experiment with it as much as I wanted. I had grand plans to do the proverbial family beach shots in white. This year the humidity, race against the sunset, crazy wind, some punchy kids, and my lack of photography knowledge kept me from getting the "perfect" shots I had pictured in my head AND had documented on a list.

I'm beginning to think our beach shots will always be bloopers...I have to remind myself it is all about the memory, though, and we have plenty of great ones.

Jeff, Danielle, and the B boys--Bryce (6) and Brendan (5)

My precious parents


The cousins

Us with Mom & Dad...
Did I mention it was windy and humid?

Hey, no fair! He got the height, looks, and brains! RATS.

A phenomenal sunset!

Thanks, everyone, for coming our way to spend time with us. We look forward to the next adventure. I'm already coming up with the next picture scheme. KIDDING!!!

Just because

This morning I was spending a bit of time reviewing some pictures from the summer and trying to categorize some more blog posts in an effort to catch up.

I found a couple of pictures of Don and Lindy and just felt moved to post about the two of them.


I am so grateful and thankful that Don is such a great daddy to Lindy. He brims over with love when it comes to that girl. In the past, I've let the green-eyed monster rear its ugly head and sometimes I've mocked and made fun of their relationship (e.g., cracks about the violins playing in the background like a movie theme when he comes home). I'm not proud of that and the truth is that I just don't praise him enough for being a tremendous father.


The two have an amazing bond and he adores her and she adores him. I love that he knows what to do with her, how to play with her, and how to take care of her. He is so patient with her and can get through to her when I can't.


Don, thank you for wearing so many hats and taking on so many responsibilities to take care of our little family. I don't thank you enough for going to work every day and being the sole provider so that I can stay at home. I don't thank you enough for the sacrifices you make to spend time with your family. I hope you know that you're making a difference in Lindy's life and that she'll be a more confident, secure, and grounded person because of YOU and your relationship with her.

Weddings, wonderful weddings

A rare photo of the our little family together

I'm back again. You probably didn't expect me so soon did you? I really am trying to document a lot of this summer.

It seems like many people like to get married in the summer months, so it is always fun to hear of a new crop of weddings each year. This weird phenomenon is happening. The weddings that we're being invited to are weddings of the kids of friends of ours. How'd that happen??? How can we be old enough to have friends whose kids are getting married and how is it I have a pre-schooler and one on the way? Actually, the special thing is that we're so hip, young, and cool (ha ha), that we're friends with many of these kids, too.

I already wrote about Ashley and Matt's beautiful wedding here. This was an especially exciting event as Lindy was the flower girl and we were so proud of our beautiful girl.

Three weeks after Ashley's wedding, we had the privilege and honor to attend Katie and Blake's wedding. Katie is the oldest daughter of Jenn and Karl, more sweet friends we've met through adoption and blogging. (Lots of you might know her as one of Karleigh Mei's big sisters!) It is a small world folks and not long into the relationship we discovered Blake is the son of one of Don's work associates and that Katie and Blake are also friends of our friends, Kara and Houston.

I like to watch shows like Say Yes to the Dre*ss but it really blows my mind when I see how much emphasis and MONEY (yikes) is placed on finding the perfect dress, having an outlandish reception, etc., and how less emphasis seems (I could be wrong) to be placed on the actual ceremony. I guess this is really not anything new. Anyway, their wedding had to be one of the sweetest and most thoughtful weddings I've ever attended. It was a beautiful ceremony and Katie just glowed the entire evening. I know her parents were beaming with pride as they watched this special moment. It was a family affair and Karleigh Mei was the flower girl. Lindy was especially interested in Karleigh Mei's execution of her job and I had to keep her from giving pointers from the stands. Lindy and Karleigh Mei got to spend some time together at the reception which was a joy to watch, considering we had met Jenn and Karl right after they were logged in for China and had helped pray this child home.

Here are some pictures from the evening. I put Don in charge of the camera and there weren't many at the end of the night. ;-)

Jenn, the lovely Mommy-of-the bride, and I

I pretty much can see Lindy tugging on KM's hand saying, "C'mon, let's go!"

Sweet friends

Solving the world's problems

I know this isn't supposed to happen but it is indicative of what the girls looked like that evening...Very busy; very blurry!

Katie with Houston and Kara

Houston and Kara (less than one month from their wedding here)

Unfortunately, I ran out of the house without either camera for Houston and Kara's wedding on July 25th so you'll have to picture them about 100 times more amazing looking than the above picture (if possible). Grrr...I'm still kind of mad about that because it was another beautiful evening. Kara looked angelic and Houston just looked so in love with his bride. I did that I'm not going to cry, suppressed snort thing, again, as I watched her walk down the aisle and saw the tears in her eyes (and maybe Daddy Garry's, too?!) as she approached the altar. We have had the privilege of watching Houston and Kara grow up and grow in love. They are a special couple who first met each other in the 3s & 4s bible class at the church we attend and the class Lindy is in now. They both have incredibly godly parents whom we love, are wonderful individuals, and together I know they'll be a strong, Christian couple who'll do great things for the Lord.

It was another tear-jerker wedding as I listened to each carefully chosen and prepared word Houston's father, Daryl, spoke to his son and now daughter-in-love. At one point he acknowledged that each one was an answer to the many prayers each set of parents had prayed. I recall my dad saying those same things to Don when we were married. It reminded me that not only do I need to be praying for Lindy during the here and now but that I also need to be CONTINUALLY asking God to be preparing a special boy just for her--when she's 30! ;-)

Well, it appears the summer weddings are over. I pray that all these couples will grow more and more in love with each other and as Lindy says, "...live happily ever after--AMEN!"

Reintroduction

Hello, my name is Lisa. (You say, "Hi Lisa...") For those of you who don't know me or can't recall, I used to blog--A LOT! One blog wasn't enough for me, so I maintained three: The family blog, Lindy's blog, and her little sister-to-be's blog. Three became too many. After a period of time, I hit blogger's block. I also felt kind of bad about myself when I read other people's blogs. I wasn't good enough, smart enough, crafty enough, organized enough, clever enough, etc., etc. I was in too deep. I'm not proud of those feelings but I'm an open book kind of gal and that's some of what I've struggled with.

I began to question my motives for blogging and reading other blogs and realized that I'd probably lost sight of my original intent which was to keep family and friends informed about what has been going on in our life, as well as chronicle our life since I don't scrapbook the good old-fashioned way.

Lately, I feel like I've been blessed with LOTS to blog about but I've been too busy to blog. I am going to make an attempt to get back into it and I'll start with trying to recapture some of what we've been doing this summer. I can't get it into any order right now, so I'm just going to document for now.

It seems fitting to blog about blog friends, so I'll start there!

Last Friday, Lindy and I got to spend the entire day with friends I've met through the world of adoption and blogging...I was so happy to be able to see Diana and Jeff again and meet Ainsley and Ruby. I'd only met Diana in person one other time and I was sooooo sick that I'm pretty sure I had vomit in my hair and was breathing fire during our dim sum lunch. It was back in February 2007 not long before they got Ruby's referral. She has been a faithful friend and prayer warrior since late 2005 or early 2006. I just love her! I love that when I met Ruby she said, "This is Lisa. She prayed for you." That is so true! I also got to see Kim and her lovely family again. I met Kim last year right after she had moved to Houston and was forced to evacuate due to Hurricane Ike. This was a much happier time for us to meet and be together.

Here are some pictures from the day. (The good ones are ones Diana sent. She's an incredible photographer!!!)

If you think we look like drowned rats, we were in the pool all day long, trying to stay cool...

Sweet Ainsley & Lindy Li



Di, Lindy, & Ruby

My precious girl

Lindy Li, Kate Emerson, and Ruby Mei all sharing a cool and colorful treat

Jeff is a magnet for these little girls! What a daddy!!!

One of these is not like the other...(I'm referring to the brown hair!!!)
Kim, Me, & Di

Thanks for a great day girls!!!

A June Bride Reflects

Seventeen years ago, I married one of the kindest and most patient people to inhabit this earth. There are many times in my life where I've felt unworthy of the good and wonderful things happening to me. Knowing God chose Don Osborn for me is definitely one of those times!


There are many reasons I love Don...Here are 17 of them:

1. He has a beautiful smile
2. His touch brings me strength
3. He is a willing helper (most of the time)
4. He is very patient
5. He has a good and pure heart
6. He still opens the door for me
7. He puts up with watching chick flicks--over and over and over
8. He is an incredible daddy--involved and hands-on
9. He has tons of common sense
10. He is super smart
11. He is accommodating
12. He rarely gets angry
13. He is a good spiritual leader
14. He doesn't tell me what I want to hear and that takes courage
15. I feel safe when I'm with him
16. I want for nothing but have learned the importance of delayed gratification
17. He puts up with me day in and day out and still loves me anyway

We've had some wonderful times and some not so wonderful times during the years and I look forward to seeing what God has in store for our relationship in the future.

Happy anniversary, Don! I love you.

Happy Mother's Day

Dear Mom, I said a prayer for you
to thank the Lord above
For blessing me with a lifetime
of your tenderhearted love.

I thanked God for the caring
you've shown me through the years,
For the closeness we've enjoyed
in time of laughter and of tears.

And so, I thank you from the heart
for all you've done for me
And I bless the Lord for giving me
the best mother there could be.

~Anonymous~

To ALL my family members and friends who are moms, I hope you have a wonderful day celebrating this day that is meant to honor YOU! Thank you for the many ways you teach me and inspire me to be a better mother and thank you, Mom, for being a constant shining light in my life.

Thankful Thursday

What that's you say? A Thankful Thursday from the blog slacker?!

I was just emptying the dishwasher and enjoying the peace and quiet and many things were colliding around in my head...I thought I'd take a moment to jot down some of my thankful thoughts...

1. I am oh so thankful for my baby brother who had a birthday yesterday. I love you Jeff!

2. I am thankful for the teachers I've had, for those who teach, and Lindy's teachers. It is National Teachers Appreciation week and they deserve every bit of recognition and thanks.

3. I am also thankful for nurses. I have many friends who are nurses and have been blessed to have good nurses care for me. It is also the week to recognize and thank them! Kara, if you're reading this--you will make a difference and be an amazing nurse!

4. I am thankful for our friend, John, who has kindly notarized so many documents of ours during our adoption journeys. He helped us again this week and thank you isn't enough.

5. I am thankful three wasn't as bad as some people had told us it would be. Lindy turns four tomorrow and I just can't tell you how blessed I am to be the mommy of this little girl.

6. I am thankful things seem to be settling down some regarding the swine flu. Our town was one of the hot spots and it was kind of creepy to think about. Schools resumed today and that's a good thing!

7. I am thankful for favorable results on that test us women who are 4o take that starts with M and ends with M.

8. I am thankful for constant reminders that God is near.

What are you thankful for today?

Look who's 40!

Happy 40th birthday
to my sister-in-law, Dani!

I wish we could be together to celebrate this milestone together. Please know I'm there with you in spirit and that I hope you have a wonderful day!

Miscellany

According to one online dictionary, miscellany is, "a collection of various items, parts, or ingredients" and that is exactly what this post will resemble. It has been a long time since I've blogged or visited blogs. I did update Lindy's yesterday and now I'm trying to figure out what to post here...

First, it is Fiesta time in San Antonio and, after 13 years of living here, I FINALLY made a Fiesta wreath. I still think it needs more streamers at the bottom but that'll come later...

I feel like I've been so busy. One of the biggest things consuming my time has been an ongoing kitchen update. I can't say it is an entire renovation or overhaul but we've finally done some things that we've been wanting to take care of for a while and felt like we could afford. It seems like some people get to just do everything at once all throughout their house but we seem to have to exercise more delayed gratification...So far we've been blessed to:

• Replace old formica countertops with granite
• Replace our sink, fixtures, and garbage disposal
• Replace the linoleum with tile
• Replace the formica backsplash with stone
• Remove the old hood over the stove. Our new hood (black) was delivered today, so that'll go up soon (right, Don?!)

We still need to add hardware to the cabinets. I'm not fond of our cabinets but they're going to have to do. We also are in the process of ripping down wallpaper and then we'll paint. Eventually, we'll make some modifications to light fixtures, too. Then we can accessorize and make it fun!

All of this has required a great deal of time and many trips and countless hours to granite yards, tile stores, L*we's, and H*me Dep*t. In fact, you know you've been spending a lot of time at the DIY stores when your kid says during pretend play, "Here you go Mommy. It's a _____ and I built it at L*we's."

I'm a bit embarrassed to post before and after pictures because the project isn't finished but I'll do it anyway to give you an idea of how things are progressing.






As you can see, things look very different and I'm pleased with how things are coming along. I do, however, have a long way to go before it'll be complete. We owe very special thanks to Don's parents who were here nearly two weeks from Colorado. Don's dad did much of the tiling and backsplash and his mother helped with sealing, grouting, peeling wallpaper off walls, and consulting with design ideas. At times during their stay, the refrigerator was in the formal dining room, the dishwasher was in the family room, the washer and dryer were in the garage, and the microwave was on the floor of our kitchen. I still have stuff all over because we're still sealing grout and making finishing touches.

Hmmm...what else?

I joined a produce co-op organized by my wonderful friend, Elissa. I am excited to be saving money on fresh fruits and vegetables as well as look for ways to incorporate more of them into our diet. Honestly, I have typically purchased more frozen vegetables than fresh. Nothing wrong with that--perfectly healthy. However, having so many fresh veggies on hand is kind of a cool way to experiment some different ways to prepare vegetables such as roasting, using in stir fries, etc. I also am getting better about eating fruit as a snack or with meals.

Would love to gather some of your favorite fresh vegetable recipes!

Moving on...

I love to read. However, since motherhood I've read far less for pleasure than I used to when I was footloose and fancy free! (Ha!) This year, I've continued my love affair with the library and am trying to have something going constantly! Although so many of you have surpassed me on this, I've read the first two books of the Twilight series and look forward to the next two, as well as seeing the movie. Most recently, I read The S*hack. It was probably the most unusual book I've ever read. If you read it, I think it is important to remember it is a work of FICTION. While it is a very BIZARRE story, I think it does an excellent job showing that God is loving and desires a relationship with His children.

This week, I just started W*icked: The Life and Times of the Wicked Witch of the West. I'm not sure it is grabbing my attention. I was reading it, along with listening to the soundtrack because I don't think we'll be able to see it on stage anytime soon. I've started looking at non-essentials in terms of things I want to do around the house. Two tickets to W*icked equals SEVERAL knobs and pulls on the cabinets! I also have S*ame Kind of Different as Me up next on my nightstand. I've heard great things about this book and nearly had to walk out of church this past Sunday for fear our minister was going to tell too much about it.

Do you have a great book to recommend? Let me know! I'm always interested to hear what others are reading.

Well, has this modge podge of randomness sent you into a deep slumber?! I promise to try to stay away from posts like these in the future. I thought after three years, blogging would be like riding a bicycle but I think I just crashed into all the parked cars trying to get back in swing of it!

I hope it won't be as long until I post again. I also hope anyone who is reading this is doing well and enjoying life.

Blessings~
Lisa

Random Acts of Kindess giveaway winners and other random thoughts

Back on February 9th I announced I was holding a giveaway in conjunction with Random Acts of Kindness week. Either I'm down to just a handful of readers from the original two handfuls I had (which could VERY well be true), or my readers were too shy to "brag" on themselves. I say this JOKINGLY because I was kind of surprised and well, okay, disappointed when I only had two entrants which probably could break some record when it comes to blog giveaways.

Like last year, I am giving two prizes away which worked out great given the circumstances. So, please join me in congratulating Sara from Football and Fried Rice and Tish from 1st Time Mama who are the winners! Both ladies had great responses and I appreciate what they shared and am thrilled to send a little love gift their way.

Along the lines of kindness, I just have to share that two Fridays ago I was the recipient of a very kind and thoughtful act. My darling friend, Jaime, whom I've posted about before surprised me early one morning with coffee, kolaches, and donuts. I was just overwhelmed that in the 8:00 hour she would cart her two boys out in the brisk cool morning air to surprise us with such a sweet and yummy treat.

Then today in Ladies Bible Class I was reminded of just how important it is to love one another during the good times and bad and that being nice is not optional. The even harder part is that we don't really have a choice of to whom we show that love and kindness--it is meant for everyone.

"Love must be sincere. Hate what is evil; cling to what is good. Be devoted to one another in brotherly love. Honor one another above yourselves. Never be lacking in zeal, but keep your spiritual fervor, serving the Lord. Be joyful in hope, patient in affliction, faithful in prayer. Share with God's people who are in need. Practice hospitality. Bless those who persecute you; bless and do not curse. Rejoice with those who rejoice; mourn with those who mourn. Live in harmony with one another. Do not be proud, but be willing to associate with people of low position. Do not be conceited. Do not repay anyone evil for evil. Be careful to do what is right in the eyes of everybody. If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone. Do not take revenge, my friends, but leave room for God's wrath, for it is written: "It is mine to avenge; I will repay,"says the Lord. On the contrary: "If your enemy is hungry, feed him; if he is thirsty, give him something to drink. In doing this, you will heap burning coals on his head.^" Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good." Romans 12: 9-21

Over the next several days I plan to meditate on these verses and pray that they will take root in my heart. I hope you will do the same...

Love & peace~
Lisa

Thankful Thursday

"...I know that the Lord is always on the side of the right. But it is my constant anxiety and prayer that I and this nation should be on the Lord's side."--Abraham Lincoln

It has been a long time since I've done a Thankful Thursday! I don't even remember the last time. I am emerging back into blogging kind of slowly, so I am not committing to doing them on a weekly basis but here goes for this week...

1. I am thankful for Abraham Lincoln. Today is his birthday and I think our country is a much better place because of his leadership and wise decisions. I wish all leaders would adhere to the quote above.

2. I am thankful for my pancake breakfast date on Monday with Elissa. Adoption brought us together but we share much more than that in common.

3. I am thankful for the hard work Don put in this past weekend installing a new fence on one side of our house. I truly don't acknowledge him enough for the hard work he does outside of the home and then at home.

4. I am thankful for the RAIN we got on Tuesday night. It wasn't much but it was wonderful and OH SO NEEDED.

5. I am thankful for Jaime. Her birthday was on Monday and we got to celebrate a bit earlier last Thursday. You may remember reading about her last year when she turned 30.

6. I am thankful my parents will be here in eleven days! Yikes, eleven days. I better get moving!

7. I am thankful for renewed hope.

What are you thankful for today?

A love letter

It's that time of year when love is in the air. If you're a romantic, then you love the notion of a love letter. Perhaps you've received some in the past, or perhaps you've written them. They do seem to be a thing of long ago when words were actually lovingly written on paper and not typed in emails or abbreviated in cryptic text messages.

Not all love letters, however, are from a romantic love. I've received beautiful letters of love from my parents, family, and dear friends. I've also received beautiful letters of love from God, my heavenly father. Sometimes I'm just too lazy to read them and I don't always cherish them like I should. I ran across a compilation several years ago and received it again last week at MOPS. I hope you will take a few minutes to read the beautiful love letter here. After you read it, I hope you will remember how truly loved you are EVERY single day and dwell on the words and its meaning.

Blessings!

It's a giveaway...

Lindy during our visit to an assisted living home in September 2007.

Well, as I posted on Friday, this week is Random Acts of Kindness week. Last year I asked you to tell me how you had been blessed by an act of kindness. I really loved reading those posts. In turn, I awarded two people with a little token of kindness for sharing your experiences.

This year, I'm asking you to brag on yourself. NOT an easy task for many of you, I know. Tell me what acts of kindness you do, try to do, aspire to do, do with your family, etc. I know you're nice people, so it shouldn't be that hard...

To say thank you for sharing, at noon (CST) Monday, February 16th, Lindy will randomly choose someone to bless with a little kindness.

Thanks in advance for your participation and bless and be blessed!

It's coming, it's coming...

Next week is Random Acts of Kindess Week. Most of the people I know are really good people. Many of them routinely practice kindness--both of an intentional nature and random nature--on an ongoing basis. It is who they are. They don't do it for praise or for something in return. They just do it because it is the right thing to do.

As with many things in my life, I am not operating at the level I'd like to be when it comes to being kind. My good intentions don't come to fruition nearly as often as they should.

Next week will serve as a great reminder for me to get in gear and be a kinder person to everyone. Being kind doesn't have to be a really big thing. It can be a smile or letting someone in a lane of traffic when everyone else is whizzing by.

I hope you'll join me in this effort to make the world a kinder place. If you have kids, have them join along, too. There are tons of ideas and ways to incorporate this with kids here. Check it out!

"Today, make an investment in someone else's happiness."--Unknown

Peeking out momentarily

How can it be that we're two weeks into the new year and I haven't blogged or visited my blog friends? Time really flies by and I thought I'd surface with a post and then will subsequently work on a post for Lindy's blog.

So, a la David Letterman, I'm producing a top 10 list of what I've been doing instead of blogging:

10. Hanging out in granite yards
9. Blow drying my new, "easier"--ha!, shorter hairdo so that it doesn't look all kinky, wavy
8. Catching up on the Netflix movies that we'd had checked out since fall
7. Cleaning out emails and removing my name off of lists I've landed on somehow
6. Washing, dividing, repackaging the raw chicken breasts that were on sale for $1.99 a pound
5. Using my new little stair stepper thingamajig. Don says I already look like the girl on the box. Right...
4. Wondering why Picasa 3, the photo editor I use, crashes at least three times every time I sit down to use it
3. Playing princess
2. Catching up with old friends on Facebook
1. Feeling overwhelmed, terribly inefficient, and unproductive

So, how about you? What have you been up to? No matter what, I hope you are off to a good year and that you find lots of exciting things on the horizon.

A baby changes everything

"My whole life has turned around
I was lost, but now I'm found
A baby changes everything, yeah
A baby changes everything..."

These lyrics from "A Baby Changes Everything" by Faith Hill remind me that not only has my life been forever changed and made better by my sweet Lindy--shown above in a self-portrait taken today--but by a precious baby boy born over 2000 years ago in a barn in Bethlehem. For me, two babies have changed everything.

Wishing you joy and peace during this special season of remembrance and celebration.

Merry Christmas~
Lisa

Thankful Thursday

Today I am thankful for many things and thought I'd return to the random laundry list I used to do long ago:

1. I am thankful for the lovely chill in the air. When it is cool outside, it helps me get more into the season. I have a hard time decking the halls when it is 80 outside. I know not everyone holds my same opinion and that's okay.

2. I am thankful that yesterday Lindy and I had a quiet day at home. With the rush of the season, it is easy for that calendar to overflow with to-do items and places to go. I am a big believer of just taking some time for calm and welcomed it yesterday. Today on the other hand... :-)

3. I am thankful my friends Jenn and Karl leave for China today to go meet and bring home their daughter, Karleigh Mei. Several of you may follow Jenn's blog. If you've never visited, check it out. You will be blessed. I consider myself so fortunate to have met and become friends with Jenn over a year ago and I can't say enough about this special family. Please pray for their safety and Karleigh Mei's transition.

4. I am thankful my friend and former co-worker, Kathy, is leaving for China next week to bring home her daughter, Jia.

5. I am thankful my sweet blogger friend, Sara , also leaves for China next week to bring home her Mya. As long and painful as the wait is, I rejoice when I get to see others bring home their babies. It somehow gives me hope that the process is moving, even if it is at a snail's pace.

6. I am thankful my friend, Tamra, successfully completed and defended her master's thesis last week. Way to go, Tams!!! So proud of you.

7. I am thankful Lindy is loving preschool and, according to her teacher, had a great day on Monday. Let's do it again today, sweetie!

8. I am thankful for progress. I often fail to see any progress being made on my to-do list. In fact, I usually think I'm going backwards. I don't do it enough but I think it is important to take a moment to acknowledge when a dent is being made and celebrate that dent, no matter how big or small. So, with that in mind, I am thankful that I am getting Christmas cards mailed, presents purchased and wrapped, the house decorated, commitments met, closets cleared, etc., etc.

Yikes! It is time to get my girl up for school. I hope everyone can find at least one thing they are thankful for today and feel free to share it with me.

Happy Thursday!