Deep thoughts

I have this condition and I am not exactly sure what it is called, so I am just working on using it for the best in my life. This condition causes me to be seriously impacted by tragic circumstances. Now please don't think I think I am the only one who has this trait. I am not suggesting that at all. I have known others like me. Additionally, I am not judging others who don't experience the same feelings I have. Everyone's emotional makeup is different. For the most part, though, I find people hear bad news, acknowledge it is sad or tragic, and then move on because it doesn't directly impact them. A lot of times I don't.

The latest thing that has me really thinking is the tragedy at Virginia Tech. I am saddened how this sleepy little campus in Blacksburg, Virginia will never be the same. Yet, I am saddened more by the scores of people left hurting as a result of one person's horrific, selfish acts.

I know there are already lots of stories surfacing about the victims and how bright and wonderful they were. However, I find it unfortunate that people are often like art pieces. I don't know much about art but I have always heard art is more valuable after the artist passes away. In fact, some pieces of art are not even noticed or popular until the artist is gone. Sadly, it is like this with people. So often we don't talk about a person's worth or value until he/she is gone.

I find myself hoping those who died knew they were loved and that their parents and friends had openly professed their love for them and not just assumed they knew. I also find myself hoping those left behind aren't overcome with guilt for not openly expressing their feelings of love and care.

My take away from this tragedy is the constant reminder that there are no guarantees, as well as the importance of making each moment matter. Tell the people you love that you love them and why you love them, for you never know when it will be your last opportunity.