Happy National Sibling Day!

Who knew? There's a National Sibling Day and it is today--April 10th. So, with that in mind I want to recognize my one and only sibling--Jeffrey Allen Caples.

Jeff is exactly two years and nine months younger than I am. I guess we know how my parents celebrated my second birthday-eh!? Ewww....Once I realized that he was conceived on or near my birthday, I always joked that because I was such a great kid Mom and Dad wanted another one JUST like me. God in His incredible wisdom knew they probably couldn't have survived another one like me, so He brought Jeff into this world.

For as long as I can remember, I think I've been giving Jeff grief with statements like the one above. I also used to tell him that he was the only baby left on the cart after Mom "came to" after giving birth so that's how we got him. So mean, I know!

Jeff is the best, though! He's smart, incredibly grounded, sensitive, and loving. He's always been there for me and has put up with a lot from his big sis. As much of a whacko as I've been, I've never sensed that he has judged me or tried to flee from me. He's always just been very kind and patient with me--no matter what. Not only is he a super brother, he's a great son, a wonderful husband to Danielle, a special father to Bryce and Brendan, and a strong Christian man with loads of integrity.

The bond between a brother and sister is quite different than that of a sister with a sister or brother and brother. I think the bond between an older sister and younger brother is even more unique. Unfortunately, lots of times there really isn't much of a bond there. That's very sad to me because I can't imagine NOT having a relationship with Jeff. I know I don't get to visit with him as often as I'd like and we don't share intimate details of life like sisters might, but I think we're close and for that I am really grateful.

So if you have a sibling, take some time to tell them you love them and remind them what a blessing they are to you.