Monday, August 2, 2010

Monday miscellany

A while back my friend Sara posted about what she was reading this summer. I was happy to see that I'm not the only person with a few reads going at once.

I love to read but sometimes I go through EXTREME dry spells and don't read for months on end and then other times I read like I'm never going to be able to again.

I thought I'd check with my beloved readers to see what is on your nightstand and share with you what is on mine.

Here's what I've been reading:


I actually finished The Help a couple of weeks ago. It is a very powerful story set in the deep south in the early 1960s. I really shudder when I think about what was going on just a few years before I was born. I like to think that things have dramatically changed and shudder to think that maybe they haven't...

I'm still reading this:


My friend, Elissa, loaned me the book Going Public in May after we had talked about public school versus private school one day over breakfast. At the very beginning of 2010, I broached the subject of sending Lindy to a private Christian school with Don. (Is that sentence structure all screwy?) He was surprised by the topic as much as I was. I think the realization that in Fall 2010 Lindy would be starting school really hit. Suddenly I was feeling unprepared and worried about what all Lindy would be encountering in a public school environment. I was also concerned we'd be losing some influence, too, and possibly be facing a lot more competition.

After discussion, prayer, and consideration, we decided to send Lindy to public school. We had not been financially preparing for the expense of private school and we just couldn't do it. Also, as we were thinking about it, I heard a quote and it really resonated with me. Since then, I've heard it several times. I believe the quote comes from Colt McCoy's father and it goes something like this, "Our job as parents is not to prepare the path for our children but to prepare our children for the path."

At that moment, I realized I was really concentrating more on the path and not her heart. PLEASE DON'T GET ME WRONG...I am not saying that if you choose to send your kids to private school or homeschool them that you are not doing your job or that you have it all wrong. I don't feel that way at all. Really. The parents I know who have chosen those options are VERY concerned about their kiddos and are doing an excellent job parenting. So, please don't think I am criticizing or saying one is better than the other. What that quote reminded me is that no matter what, where, or who, we needed to be stepping it up and preparing her heart for that path and capitalizing on teachable moments.

The book Going Public has provided some great thoughts, ideas, scriptures, and encouragement as Lindy begins a new chapter in her life three weeks from TODAY!!!

Last but NOT least, I've been reading a less pretty version of this:


Here's a confession. I'm undisciplined. I'm a slacker. I'm a wannabe sitting on the sidelines. I can't even think of a time--recently--that I've set a goal and accomplished it. I am busy but I'm not accomplishing what I want to accomplish. I'm not being self-depracating; I'm being honest. Last year at some point I was whining to Don about how he was responsible for my weight gain and lack of exercise and he said, "So what you are saying is you want ME to be your self-discipline..." Um, yeah, basically...By the way, ouch...

With all that said folks, I set a goal. Yep! I set a goal to read the entire bible this year. I've started and stopped in the past but this year I'm going to do it. I am. Really. Sadly, I am on June 3rd and by my calculations that puts me at about two months behind. However, I WILL do this. I am not doing this with anyone else. I'm being my own self-discipline. I have no one to blame but MYSELF if I don't achieve my goal, which, by the way, I'm going to achieve. I felt like it was a more important goal than all the other quasi-goals I have floating around in my head.

I have been amazed at all I've been learning and all I had forgotten. I've been trying to read for comprehension and not just gloss over things. I'll admit it is rough at times. This approach offers some of the Old Testament, some of the New Testament, a Psalm, and then a verse from Proverbs each day. That breaks it up nicely in my opinion. God in his INFINITE wisdom gives me some great nugget for me to savor with each reading!

Along with catching up in the above-mentioned, next up for me is Crazy Love:


I'd love to hear what you've been reading or what you're wanting to read.

Happy Monday! Hope it is a great week.

3 comments:

Football and Fried Rice said...

Oh, girl. You know I love reading!! (and a self proclaimed Wanna-Be myself!)

I am on the library wait list for The Help....I have seen it EVERYWHERE!!! I am looking forward to reading it.

I would love to know what you think about the book "Going Public" - I think I will throw myself into that investment again as the school year approaches. We have been greatly blessed by public school - but one can never be too prepared! ((by the way, have you found your local Moms in Touch group?))

I am in the middle of The Catcher in the Rye - which is supposedly a classic, but I am finding it horribly boring and unappealing - not to mention uninteresting :) I feel really unAmerican saying so - hmm.......we'll see if I finish it.

Crazy Love. Read it. LOVED it. Read it with my husband - I highly recommend that! I have (but haven't read yet) Francis Chan's "Forgotten God" (about our neglect of the Holy Spirit) - it looks amazing too. Don't forget when you are reading CRAZY LOVE that online, Francis does a quick video (1-2 min) for each chapter.

Also, The "Bloom Book Club" with Angie Smith (Bring The Rain) did Crazy Love and they did videos & discussion every week - you can back in their archives - beginning here:

http://thebloombookclub.blogspot.com/2009/09/intro-and-chapter-1.html

Okay. So, on top of wanting to read that book about public school - I am waiting for this book:

http://www.amazon.com/Priceless-Novel-World-Tom-Davis/dp/158919103X

Tom Davis is amazing!! I don't know if you read Fields of the Fatherless or The Red Letters (living a faith that bleeds) - they were both non-fiction, amazing. I also read "Scared" last year (fiction based on true events, like Priceless) - anyways - he's GREAT. If you haven't read Scared, I can send it to you - you will read it all in one sitting- it's that good ;)

& MaryBeth Chapman's book "Choosing to See" is released on 8/18; I think that will be an amazing read to light my heart on fire and remind me of what's truly important in life.

Oh, & P.S. I am ALMOST finished with Lord Change my Attitude. I ditched the book on Calvinism (WOW, talk about dry!) and the beach read was easy peasy ;) My Bible Study this fall will be on the Patriarchs (Beth Moore)..

I am sure in for a treat - sounds like you will be too!!

Hold On!

Football and Fried Rice said...

i can't believe that comment was THAT long. This is why we HAVE to talk on the phone ;)

Just wanted to say if you want to chat about Crazy Love while you are reading it - it is still in my nightstand - it was THAT kind of good!!

Cooking Up Faith said...

The last book I read was A Million Miles in a Thousand Years by Donald Miller. I loved it. The book is all about how our lives are a story and God is the author.

There is one part of the book where he talks about a family who had a daughter who was rebelling and getting into some bad choices. They talked to someone who told them their life had no story, no excitment, so the father decided to pack up the family and start an orphanage in Mexico. They didn't really have the money and his wife was shocked, as this wasn't something they would usually do, but they did it together as a family and their daughter turned her life around, dumped the bad boyfriend, and was on a new path.

I went to a mentoring moms meeting once and the speaker said this to me that has stuck and helped me when sending my kids to school...you have to take the moments in their life and instead of sheltering them from anything and everything you turn their moments into teachable moments. I was so blessed by hearing this. I worried less and just knew that when something difficult happened we would take it, discover what God says to do about it, and have faith that it comes from Him and He has purpose in it.

Sorry for the long comment...your posts are so interesting!! :)
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